queer advice 47: I'm a 33-year-old dirty slut who loves to be alone and go to bed at 10 pm

"what is your advice for balancing building alone time/space while trying to spit on someone's cunt on the regular?"

hello there,

I'm a 33-year-old dirty slut who loves to be alone and go to bed at 10 pm. Can you guess my problem yet? Recently, after a year of living with my wonderful ex-gf who didn't want to fuck me and supporting her through unsuccessful IVF (not as bad as it sounds!) I moved across the country to a pretty queer semi-rural *costal elite* New England…