I've been learning a lot about limerence lately as a person who loves to crush. The understanding of good crushes and bad crushes through that concept has helped me a lot to navigate feelings and set boundaries with myself around them. When I get that high and motivation to be the best version of myself, I ride it because it helps get my energy up and be more creative and productive in my day to day life (though I know productivity can also be toxic, but this is more like spiritual productivity). This crush sounds like a 'ride the high' crush but likely not a 'we will fuck' crush. Great advice, I'm curious to see how things progress for the question asker ♡
this is so spot on. i just experienced a crush where my mind spent a lot of time trying to figure out its goodness or badness, your description of draining crushes and the ways they are often due to communication struggles was so affirming. thx maddy and good luck milf lover
k I went on a walk yesterday and there was a loose dog and I called the MILF and we wrangled the loose dog back home together and then I rested on her shoulder. xoxo
I've been learning a lot about limerence lately as a person who loves to crush. The understanding of good crushes and bad crushes through that concept has helped me a lot to navigate feelings and set boundaries with myself around them. When I get that high and motivation to be the best version of myself, I ride it because it helps get my energy up and be more creative and productive in my day to day life (though I know productivity can also be toxic, but this is more like spiritual productivity). This crush sounds like a 'ride the high' crush but likely not a 'we will fuck' crush. Great advice, I'm curious to see how things progress for the question asker ♡
hi you are so helpful this is so helpful ty ty. xoxo milf-lover !!!
this is so spot on. i just experienced a crush where my mind spent a lot of time trying to figure out its goodness or badness, your description of draining crushes and the ways they are often due to communication struggles was so affirming. thx maddy and good luck milf lover
k I went on a walk yesterday and there was a loose dog and I called the MILF and we wrangled the loose dog back home together and then I rested on her shoulder. xoxo
omg stooppppp.. I haven't read the advice bit yet, but this column has been SPICY.
Who is Boston?!