I mean, it’s one thing to be an avoidant person not being emotionally ready to define things for whatever reason (not great, but can also relate). But to accept/expect involvement in the raising of a child in that setting is just baffling to me. It seems unfair for the child with this ambiguity and downright disrespectful to the letter writer:/
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I mean, it’s one thing to be an avoidant person not being emotionally ready to define things for whatever reason (not great, but can also relate). But to accept/expect involvement in the raising of a child in that setting is just baffling to me. It seems unfair for the child with this ambiguity and downright disrespectful to the letter writer:/
Yes totally, the addition of a kid makes this situation so different and way more vulnerable. I hope the letter writer gets some clarity soon.