Queer Advice

queer advice #105: therapy with an ex

"Is it a crazy idea to go to attachment counseling with an ex?"

Jun 8 •

queer advice #104: the incident

"I began dating my first girlfriend when I was 24 and she was 32..."

May 21 •

queer advice #103: woof

"How do I make space for me to have a lousy time when my partner is having an awesome time?"

May 7 •

queer advice #102: newly single lesbian

"how do I avoid ending up in another long-term relationship where I am not actually happy?"

Apr 14 •

queer advice #101: bedraggled crone

writing this with one hand, distracting a fussy puppy with the other

Apr 4 •

queer advice #100: yearning

"I’m 31 and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship or physically intimate with anyone."

Mar 13 •

queer advice #99: secret hurt

"Do you think I am actually polyamorous or just a big fraud?"

Feb 24 •

queer advice #98: or so I thought

"This is my 5th serious relationship, amid a sea of bizarre situationships..."

Feb 11 •

queer advice #97: writing hell

"I’ve just broken up with my girlfriend of three years..."

Jan 29 •

queer advice #96: rapid fire edition

dysregulated holiday sex, former student, jock4jock

Jan 21 •

queer advice #95: the life I want

"I have a stable job and good friends. I push myself to try new things. I make art consistently. I am on meds and in therapy. And yet I feel like I’m…

Jan 9 •

queer advice #94: I met the ex

"she is a corporate influencer awards winning machine and I am an anti-capitalist public sector worker..."

Dec 17, 2024 •

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